What kind of birth control would be best?

The whole reason i started it was to shrink ovarian cysts. I have taken 3 different types of pills; the first made me absolutely psychotic.. crying one minute, flying of the handle then next, and then practically suicidal. the second i bled practically all month! and the one i'm on now is fine, but i keep headaches, and my sex drive is basically nonexistent. My husband thinks he's doing something wrong but i know its this freakin birth control! I've only been married 3 months, and I'm 19.. any advice would be appreciated! I just need something to prevent pregnancy, cysts, and not kill my sex drive!