How can I get over my fear of intimacy?

Ok then, let me go at this another way. Maybe you could try to be near guys more often, and just constantly tell yourself that its ok for guys to hit on you because it IS. Guys hit on girls all the time and nothing can really help you but yourself, just set your mind that its OK when guys call you pretty and that you shouldnt feel awkward. You know how when people have stage fright they tell them to just pretend there is only ONE person in the audience, well this is similar, just picture the guy as one of your best friends and that way you wont be uncomfortable. Hope this helps and sorry i misunderstood the question before.